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Help, My Baby Doesn’t Like Her Carrier!

In today’s world, the fab of baby carrying is all the craze. It’s a proven fact that babies enjoy the content movement. Plus, the comforts of being held by an older member of their family.

Baby carriers are a convenient way to carry your baby around. They are removing the need to have one hand occupied. They are freeing you up to be able to go shopping or household chores. It doesn’t matter what you are doing, as long as your baby is occupied. They are getting their needed attention, and you can get your tasks done.

A few of the great brands available on the market

  • Tula
  • Lenny Lamb
  • Ergo
  • Lillebaby
  • Baby Bjorn
  • Moby wrap

So, what do you do when your baby doesn’t like the carrier?

Don’t Give Up

Some Babies’ first reaction to a carrier is to scream, wiggle, and fidget. This isn’t an uncommon response to new things. Don’t get discouraged. Try different positions, different brands, or different times of the day.

Some babies prefer the swaddle feeling; others prefer to see. Just find which position your baby prefers.

Different carriers offer different features or styles. A sling will have your baby laying on its side, cradled up against your body as your baby gets older and can hold their body better. They will be able to sit up. At the same time, they are giving you the freedom of having two hands. A front and back carrier gives your baby the ability to look around.

Your baby may prefer to lay down when they are tired. Or doesn’t like to be constricted when they are hungry. Try different times of the day, making sure that the baby’s needs are met. All of this before putting them in the carrier.

If at first, you don’t succeed, Don’t give up. Try the carrier out several times. Not just a small handful, but regularly. Make the time in the carrier short and fun. You are trying Dancing or singing. Even a small snack is a good way to teach your baby the carrier is OK.

Practice makes perfect

Suppose you or your partner are worried about the carrier. More than likely, your baby won’t like it either. Children can sense and feel the parent’s frustrations. If you are new to carriers, then try wearing it before you place the baby in. Figure out how to operate the straps and how to maneuver around the buckles and extra buckles.

A few tests run, with a teddy bear or other stuffed animal. It is a great way for you to figure out all the weird kinks and awkwardness. This will help you and your baby feel comfortable when the time comes.

The Right Time

The best time to introduce a carrier. Especially if you can’t do it from day one. Is to introduce it when they are tired. Most babies want to cuddle when they are tired. Because you are a familiar smell and comfort to them, this can help them become familiar with the carrier.

Wearing the carrier

Are you wearing the carrier correctly? It’s common to wear the carrier to low or too loosely. Wearing the carrier in these fashions will not provide your baby with the safety of a properly worn carrier.

Suppose you need help learning how to wear a carrier. There are several videos available online. As well as amazing resources at your local babywearing stores.

Here is a great link that shows how to properly wear a Tula carrier.


Making the carrier experience a fun one for your baby. It is a great way to get them excited to be worn. Taking a walk outside, even just for a few minutes. Explore in the yard or local garden. The movement and fresh air will help relax your baby. The new sites and smells will get them excited and help them forget about the carrier.

Trying different carriers

Wraps are a super long piece of fabric. They are designed to configure and tie around your body. This allows you the versatility of different styles.

Sling wraps are one piece over the shoulder wraps. Much like you’d wear a shoulder bag or purse.

Here is a list of the best slings on the market:

Structured Carriers are much like a backpack. They are worn over the shoulders and have a padded area against your back or chest. Some Structured carriers are designed for back and front wear. Others are designed for one or the other. So make sure when you purchase, you get the one you’re looking for.

Toddler vs. Newborn

Just as a carrier will have different styles. They will also come in different sizes. A newborn carrier is ready to use from day one. These carriers are perfect for babies that aren’t able to support themselves.

Toddler carriers are usually larger. They are designed to allow your toddler a bit more freedom. You are allowing them to look around and explore. They also offer different positions to accommodate a toddler’s curiosity.

Suppose you are looking to purchase a carrier that accommodates your growing baby. Many toddler carriers will have newborn inserts. You are allowing them to be used in the early months.

Ultimately, the biggest advice that can be given. Is not to give up. Keep trying; your baby will eventually become accustomed to being carried.

Your children are only little for a few years; these years are precious. So don’t forget that this to will passes. Soon your child will be back to their fun-loving a curious self.

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