Is my toddler a sociopath?
Not every sociopath is going to be a bad person. A few have gone on to be very productive people. So don’t think just because your toddler is one, you have to go out and find answers right away. Some of the answers are: do I have to send the child away? Or is the child a danger to himself or them around him? Hopefully, these seven tips will help uncover how they think and how to cope with them. With having a toddler who is a sociopath, you don’t have to be alone.
1. Doesn’t Care About Consequences
At the age of a toddler’s development, almost all toddlers are trying to learn about the world around them. Each one will have time in their lives where they will push boundaries. Seeing what they can get away with, what happens when they try something. But a child who is a sociopath takes it a step further. For them, a consequence isn’t something they will allow for restraining them. It’s a learning experience. Instead of getting angry with the child, try being positive and being on their side.
2. Lies, Lies, and Lies
Sence, a sociopath, has no feeling of remorse, the number of lies they will tell is unheard of as most kids will lie to try and avoid getting in trouble. They are trying to get out of or avoid trouble. A sociopath will push the boundaries and see what they can and can not get away with. The best option to have with the child is to call them out on it. Eventually, calling them out will teach them who they can’t get one over on you. They will move on and try to find someone else.
3. Lack of Emotion
Another trait of being a sociopath is not being very emotional. Or, if they do, it is a trait they know how to use. Most sociopaths are very smart and can pick up on it. Sence they cannot feel any emotions, they will never really laugh, or cry. Sence it is something they do not show, emotion from others they tend to feed off.
With a situation like a sociopath, dealing with their lack of emotions is not common. If it is the case, no normal person can expect to handle those situations. The best answer is to ask someone for help. There are psychiatrists out there who specialize in helping both the sociopath and their families. There is no need to do it on your own. Normal people are not able to handle their toddlers on their own.
Not unusual for a toddler to have their parents around their little fingers. It is not hard to figure out how. We are human, and sometimes it’s hard to say no to those big eyes. If even a normal toddler can pull it off, it is almost scary what a sociopath can do.
As far as a sociopath, toddler goes. Quite a few times, the control the child has over their parents is almost really scary. Anyone can say you have to keep a level head to keep them from having any control over you. But again, sociopaths are not like other people. So their ability to use their manipulation such as charm and glibness is not like other toddlers or people. It is almost like they have a special power they can tap into.
One way to keep their manipulation down is to take away the need for them to use manipulation. If you find an activity, they enjoy doing it. Do anything you can to encourage them to pursue those activities. They are like other kids, just trying to learn their way.
We all know toddlers have their moments where they feel life is unjust and unfair. When they have those feelings, it is not unusual for them to lash out. As far as sociopath children are concerned. You can never tell when or what will set them off. If it isn’t scary enough, their anger can last for any amount of time. The timeframe may be from only a few minutes, if not up to hours.
There are a few options you can do when a temper happens. When the toddler starts having one, it is to keep a clear head. If a clear head is not an option, just leave the room and wait for them to settle down. They are also trying to keep everyone safe. Showing the toddler, they are getting to you could only fuel the need to control you or others. If you can get to the child before they start acting up, an option could be to hold them. Wait for them to tire themselves out.
As they are prone to being manipulative, it will cause them to get into a lot of fights. It is not outside the possibility they will also make others fight for them. This fact is extra relevant when your toddler is dealing with less-intelligent individuals. Even if they were on the same level as them, most of the time, it would turn into a fight. Sociopaths are not a fan of being challenged.
The best way to deal with your toddler being a sociopath is to get them into an activity. Any activity they can use their usual characteristics is the best.
As it has been said through the article, you are not alone. No one with a sociopath toddler should be alone. If you are starting to believe your toddler is a sociopath, you should get a second opinion. There are several ways doctors and psychiatrists out there who can give you a definite answer.
Once a diagnosis has been confirmed. They can direct you on ways to help with the toddler. These toddlers are very special cases, and the average person usually can not handle them. Neither do or act the way the toddler truly needs.